10.28.2009

The Lord Provides

Sometimes it seems like God has to keep teaching me the same lessons over and over again. Lately He has been reminding me that when I put my trust in Him and do things His way and honor Him with my time, talent, and treasure (as Miles would say) that everything else will fall into place. No need to fret. "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." - Matt. 6:33-34

So, what, Julie, has brought about this revelation once again to you today? Well, I really wanted to channel these darling vintage postcard inspired save the dates...


I knew, however, that we would have to have some engagement pictures taken and I wanted them to be quality but I also knew that our budget may not allow for a professional shoot so I prayed about it (I know, I know I pray about silly things but God tells us to pray continuously, right?) and tried not to think about it too much.
Well, yesterday, whilst perusing facebook, I noticed that one of my friends had made a page for her new photography business. I have always admired her pictures of her darling kids... Well, lo and behold she and her husband are trying to build their portfolio and announced that the first five friends to ask would get a free photoshoot! No way! So ...I asked! (obviously) And she said yes! Woo hoo! Oh, and their business is called Nothing but Miracles Photography - how appropriate. Look at her amazing pictures (and babies!)...





Gah... maybe she won't notice if I steal baby Tyler... :)

10.20.2009

Venue Updates...


On Thursday Brad and I checked out the schoolhouse and I guess we're going to keep looking... The actual schoolhouse was very cute and Stephanie was helpful and sweet but neither of us are fans of gazebos and/or painted concrete. I don't know, it just didn't feel right.


I think we'll know it when we see it. We both still really like the Thursday Club (not available on Saturday the 17th - only Sunday) and when we talked to Pastor Miles he said he might be willing to tape the first service and possibly just to a video cast for the remaining 4 services that Sunday! So sweet.


I wish we could use an old church (I have a thing for pews) but it would seem that they all require you to use their clergy for the ceremony and some even require you to be baptized into their church! (Reminds me of My Big Fat Greek Wedding). Brad thinks maybe he could pull some strings though so I'll keep my chin up!


We are also going to check out a couple of places in Temecula (as a last resort if nothing in San Diego works). One is an estate and it looks very pretty... and the other is an outdoorsy, park scenario with lots of trees. Which I love the idea of - I imagine it looking something like this:


Which is my problem. get all excited imagining what it could look like then I get there and it's not nearly as cute as my head made it out to be. :(

Oh well, I can't worry about it... as the Lord has told me, "...I know the plans I have for you... plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11) He has it all figured out - I just have to have faith.

Little Girl at Heart...


Do you remember that childhood game where you take your little lunch apple and carefully, slowly twist the stem one turn at a time as you count out "A, B, C..." etc until the stem finally breaks off? Then whichever letter you land on is the first letter of the name of the man you will marry? That was my kind of game as a kid. Romantic, easy, a little mysterious...

Well, I just played it again, sitting here at my desk... and I landed on "B"! How convenient! :)

10.19.2009

Taylor Linens Photoshoot


We had the big photo shoot on Friday for Taylor Linens and it went really well. It was a little hairy there for a while wondering whether or not we would get a courier of new samples in time (which we didn't) but in the end we got some beautiful shots... and even got to use a puppy! I love seeing how everything comes together.



10.14.2009

Photoshoots and Schoolhouses

Well, Thursday and Friday are shaping up to be busy days... Brad and I are visiting the Old Richland Schoolhouse in San Marcos on Thursday afternoon so see if it might work as a venue for our wedding.


We are doing all of this a little faster than a lot of couples so we need to reserve a spot quick before they're all taken! This place does sound nice and intimate but it's so hard to tell from pictures some times. The girl that works there is very sweet though so I'm hoping that will translate into a sweet place to get married as well!


Taylor Linens is having a big photoshoot on Friday so the rest of Thursday is going to spent running errands and ironing and fluffing to get ready for the big day! I love photoshoots but the set-up can be draining... pray I have energy! Our photographer, Rick, is amazing though and it's so much fun to work with him and our stylist Carey. I love them...

10.13.2009

New spud muffins pictures!

Brad and I did a little photoshoot a couple weeks ago - what do you think? :)


The whole gang! It took awhile to get them to all sit still and look at the camera... crazy kids.


Shy Harold. His hood is way too small for his noggin.


Chuck. Funny little baby chicken/duck...


Frances... with her sweet pink sweater. She is so smart...


Megumi is a little jumpy - it makes her a target for practical jokes... poor bunny.


Hazel is the new kid on the block. But she's got a schnazzy bow so she'll be fine.


Duncan's off to cause havoc... dinosaurs are trouble.


My little Oliver... golly I love that one... I just wanna squish him!

10.12.2009

~ Utterly Engaged ~


It's been one month since Mount Washington and I feel like I've been caught up in a whirlwind of activity. I don't know if I have ever been so excited and simultaneously so overwhelmed in my life. I am marrying my very dearest friend. A man I love, trust and respect completely. I am so perfectly at peace with our decision to get married - but it is still a lot to take in! So much is happening in the next six months it is kind of amazing. My brother is getting married to the most lovely girl in November, my little sister is going off to UCSD in January, and now I'm getting married in April!! Oh, my poor mother. As she so perfectly put it, "They are all good things... but all at once it's just too much!"


My brother and his fiancee had the most darling engagement photos taken! Hmm... I think Brad and I may need some of these done... aren't they precious?



So, why April? Well, a few reasons. Logistically, April 17th is the only day in all of April and May that our pastor could officiate our wedding. April weddings are less expensive than June weddings and often have better weather (and everything is so green!). Everyone we have talked to has told us to keep the engagement short and the wedding simple - it's about the marriage not the wedding. Also, we believe that the Lord has plans for us and for our life together and if you truly believe that, it seems wrong to put His plans on hold so that you can have more time or money to plan a party (more or less). Not only that but we love each other and can't wait to be married! So, in the end, April is what works for us and what we feel good about.


Now the rubber hits the road! I have so many ideas and so much to do! I hope you enjoy the journey with me!

9.29.2009

...the story continues...


The morning of the hike I woke up excited, a little bleary-eyed, and hungry. When I got downstairs the air was crisp with excitement Brad, Mike and Rudy were busily gathering everything we would need and packing up the car. Strangely enough, though, no one else seemed to want breakfast! So I concocted a lovely mix of yogurt, granola, almonds, and fresh fruit to take on the road and Brad brewed me a travel mug of coffee... gosh I love him. He gives me coffee. :)

With everyone loaded into the Toyota (puppies included) we headed up the highway to New Hampshire. You would think I'd have been more concerned than I was that Mr. Brad had absolutely no appetite on the morning of a big hike. I mean; you need sustenance for this kind of thing! But oh no, I just ate my yogurt and snoozed. Though I was curious about his mom's seemingly unending (and adorable) excitement for a hike she wasn't even going on! Again and again she asked if I was excited for the hike... "Are you excited????" "Um... yeah! I like mountains!" Haha! Boy was I dense…


We arrived at Pinkham Notch at the base of Mt. Washington around 10am after a four hour drive… stretched our legs, took advantage of the facilities, took some pictures, said our goodbyes (lots of hugs), and headed up the mountain!


This is exactly the kind of environment I love to hike in… lush, tall trees, rushing rivers and streams, big rocks, crisp air, and fantastic company.


It didn’t take long before I started to realize that I hadn’t moved much in the last week. I was becoming somewhat nervous about the hike ahead so I developed a system to arrange mini-breaks without Brad realizing that I was a big wimp. “Oh wow! Look at that view! I need at least twelve pictures!”, “Do you need some water? I’m a little parched”, “Wow! Look at that bug!!”, “Can I have a hug? I need a hug.” So many options… :)


Soon enough, however, I got into the swing of it and actually felt pretty energetic. Heck, I was skipping up those rocks with the best of them! Ok, maybe that’s an exaggeration. It is. Actually. But I was doing a lot better.


Before I knew it we were at the Caretaker’s Cabin where we had agreed to stop for lunch. It’s amazing how warm all that physical exertion keeps you… ten minutes after we sat down we both had our fleeces on. I had no idea that it was chilly up there until I stopped! We enjoyed some peanut butter on a whole grain bagel and took in the incredible views for about 15 minutes before continuing the climb.


Our next section was the “headwall” (whatever that means) of Tuckerman’s Ravine. The “trail” quickly disappeared as we scrambled up and over boulders and rocks… it was something like a never-ending, evil stairmaster.



Ninny, if you are reading this, think Atlanta stairs times 100. They paint yellow arrows on the rocks so that you know where to go. Luckily the amazing views kept me from noticing any pain… almost any pain... it really was so so pretty.


When we got to the next little section I was awestruck. There were little streams coming down the mountain, wildflowers, mossy rocks, and a view that quite literally took my breath away. It was one of the most beautiful spots I have ever seen. Tucked away in the middle of this crazy mountain range. Wow.


Brad suggested we rest on this big flat rock for a little while. I was thrilled to stop and take some pictures! Brad was snapping away as well… though mostly just of me. Hah, always a little awkward, but adorable.


I pulled out a snack pack of cheez-its that had been in my backpack. It was tiny so I figured even though I’m not a huge cheez-it fan it might be a good snack. I also thought it might be fun to alternate popping a cheez-it in my mouth, then popping one in Brad’s mouth until the bag was empty... what? Was that cheesy? Hehe. Poor Brad got sick of this game unusually quickly. “Can we be done with the snacks? Please?” “What? No way! It’s a tiny bag – if I put it back like this the crumbs will all settle at the bottom of my bag… gross.” “Ok, ok. I’ll finish it.” I couldn't figure out why he seemed so nervous! Wasn’t it his idea to rest??


Once we finished the bag he waited for some people to pass us and then hopped up and scrounged around in his backpack, pulling out a balled-up sock. He slowly walked over and knelt down in front of me. I looked around… wondering why he was sitting like that… couldn’t be comfortable I thought. (Again. Why am I such a dunce??). Stupidly, I start to open a fruit snack much to my Bradley’s chagrin. “Julie! Enough snacks!” He cried pleadingly.

Suddenly I realized what that look in his eyes was and why he was on one knee and what he was holding… and I started to cry (happy tears of course!!). He said some really really sweet things and asked me if I would marry him. ………. sigh………….


I was a mess of tears and blubbering... I couldn’t even get a simple “Yes!” out! I just threw my arms around him and laughed and cried. “Should I take that as a ‘yes’?” “Yes!!” :-D


Just at that moment another couple was passed by and Brad asked if they would mind taking some pictures for us – she was probably wondering why in the world this guy would want pictures of me crying. Hah! When I told her what had just happened she shrieked, “What?! Just NOW??? AAAHH!!! I’ll take LOTS of pictures for you!! YAY!!” Haha! She was awesome.


Once all of the pictures of us glowing and blubbering and laughing had been taken we took a moment to revel in our new ENGAGED status… “Hello fiancĂ©…” “Hello fiancĂ©e.” Wow. :)


Having come (a little bit) back down to earth, we put our packs back on and continued up the mountain… which is tricky when you can’t stop staring at your hand. :) I was flying up the mountain at this point – I felt no pain. I starting singing Sound of Music songs and spinning around (no, I’m not kidding). I was so excited and joyful and foggy I hardly noticed the steep climb.


Except that I was concerned about nicking or scratching my beautiful new ring! How could he give me such a beautiful piece of jewelry while I’m supposed to be climbing a mountain?? Agh!


Climbing, climbing, scrabbling, teetering, climbing, singing, climbing… it kinda went on forever… At one point this group of hiking-folk passed by and looked at me working my way through a tricky spot and pleasantly called out “How ya doin’?” Most likely expecting a pained moan and a “Are we getting close??” or at least a conservative “I think I’ll make it!” but oh no… they got, “FanTAStic!!!!” and a big, beaming smile. They thought I was on drugs. Brad was laughing so hard I thought he might fall off the cliff!

The last stretch was the hardest but we finally made it to the top and were instantly enveloped in a cloud. It was cold at the top! Mt. Washington has the worst weather in the world! That is documented fact. They have clocked the world's highest wind speeds on the mountaintop. Once inside the warmth and comfort of the observatory we began calling our families to tell them our news!



It wasn’t long before we realized that it had taken us a little longer than expected to summit and that at this point, if we decided to hike down the mountain, we would be hiking in the dark. Now, don’t worry, Brad is ALWAYS prepared so we had headlamps and warm clothes and anything and everything we could ever possibly need, but still… It seemed wiser to go ahead and take the last shuttle down the mountain. While we were waiting for the shuttle we sent a postcard home, rested, and reveled in the bliss of our future together.



The shuttle ride was actually really fun! Our driver was very informative and really enjoyed picking Brad’s brain about the AT and the PCT (two crazy hikes he’s done). The sun was setting over the mountains and the views were golden and amazing.



Once we got down we enjoyed a celebratory reunion with Mike and Rudy, lots of hugs, tears and laughter, and then went to dinner. We didn’t get home until 3am, we were SO exhausted… but not too exhausted to talk to one of my best friends in Bulgaria. :)

Oh my goodness… I’m engaged!!!!!